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The Evening Hour

The last hour or two of the day, and how to make it end on purpose. Light, warmth and attention, turned down in the right order.

Start here: three mechanisms explain
most of a bad night


Circadian timing, sleep pressure, and arousal. Almost every piece of sleep advice you have read is a clumsy attempt at one of these three. Once you can name them, you can stop guessing.

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Pieces in this path

Twelve pieces live in this path.

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The Evening Hour12 min

Night Routine: Build a Wind-Down That Helps You Sleep

Three dials to turn down before bed: light, warmth and attention, with a 90-minute plan and a free checklist.

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The Evening Hour4 min

The Printable Night Routine Checklist (and How to Make It Yours)

Eight steps on one page, each with its reason, and a two-week grid to see what helps.

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The Evening Hour6 min

What to Do Before Bed: An Hour-by-Hour Plan for the Last Ninety Minutes

An hour-by-hour plan for the last ninety minutes, with a 20-minute version for late nights.

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The Evening Hour6 min

A Simple Night Routine for People With No Time

Three steps that cost no time, then 5, 10 and 20 minute versions for busy evenings.

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The Evening Hour6 min

No Phone Before Bed? What the Evidence Actually Says

Blue light is the smaller part of the phone problem. A simpler rule than a one-hour ban.

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The Evening Hour7 min

Dim Lights Before Bed: How Bright Your Evening Really Is

How dim is dim enough, why brightness beats bulb color, and a room-by-room plan.

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The Evening Hour7 min

The After-Work Routine: Close the Day So the Evening Can Start

A five-minute workday shutdown and a real transition home, so the evening can start.

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The Evening Hour6 min

A Winter Night Routine for the Long Dark Evenings

The dark-season version: earlier evenings, morning light, and how to stop the sofa doze.

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The Evening Hour6 min

Books to Read Before Bed: What to Read, and What to Avoid

Slow books that are easy to put down, and what to keep out of bed.

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The Evening Hour8 min

Bedtime Yoga: Gentle Poses You Can Do in Bed

Six gentle poses that start on the bed and end lying down, with what the research shows.

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The Evening Hour7 min

How to Keep a Bedtime Routine You'll Actually Stick To

Why routines are gone by Thursday, and what habit research says about keeping one.

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The Evening Hour7 min

A Night Routine for Moms Who Get the Last Hour Back

A wind-down built around the kids' bedtime, the quiet hour after, and broken nights.

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One letter, sent
as the light goes

A single idea about rest, one thing worth trying this week, and one thing worth ignoring. It arrives in time for Sunday morning.

No noise, leave whenever you like.